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October 7, 2008
Poison Phrase ~ If you believe that, you’ll believe anything
It was a political conversation, but this kind of attack happens in business and personal conversations. When Julie disagreed with Lorrie’s opinion about a national policy, instead of addressing the issue directly, Julie said,
- If you believe that, you’ll believe anything.
It’s called attacking the messenger, and it’s a bully tool to end reasonable dialogue. Respond by saying,
I offered a sincere opinion and you replied by painting me as gullible. Please point out the flaws in the argument instead of me.
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